Etiquette

Butt Dialing: Who hasn’t?

by alec on July 16, 2007

ComputerWorld takes a look at the Nine Deadly Sins of Cell Phone Use, including Butt Dialing (inadvertently pressing the call back while your phone is in your pocket), Stall Talking, and Crunchy Calling (eating and talking).  It's a matter of manners, and nothing more.  But in the case Crunchy Calling, I am not sure who's more at fault — the person interrupting your meal, or the person who continues eating.  It's a matter for Emily Post.

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Email Bedlam

by alec on July 12, 2006

I love meeting new people, and email is a fine way to do it.  When a friend sent out a change of address notification to his address book the other day, he accidently put the entire list on the CC line instead of the BCC line, allowing anyone who replied all to mail to the whole list again.  Some of us regarded this as a golden opportunity.  Others got bent out of shape, and began mailing the whole list asking to be removed from all future replies.  Ultimately a futile exercise, I’m afraid, as each replier hit the send button before the request arrived in their inbox.  It was quite fun as a whimsical conversation about our collective opportunities to be offered a bebo-like ransom for our companies ensued.

No harm done, except that a few self-absorbed individuals had a few extra pieces of email in their inboxes.  Chill, dudes and dudettes!

Now, it could have been worse.  During the late 1990′s at Microsoft there was a famous incident where a mailing list called BEDLAM DL3 was used in a similar way.  BEDLAM DL3 was an experimental list being used by either IS, or the Exchange team themselves.  It had over 25,000 names of Microsoft employees on it.  When one employee discovered the list, and wondered why she had been included on it, she mailed the list asking to be removed — a common error.  That set of a storm of Reply All’s saying “Me too”, followed by another storm of Reply All’s saying “Stop using Reply-All, it bogs down the email system, and so on…

In a matter of an hour, 15.5 million messages, representing 195 Gigabytes of bandwidth, passed across the network, bringing the entire email system to its knees.  Following that, the Exchange team implemented limits on the size of the reply all list.  Oh, and of course, t-shirts were made.

Hmmm… perhaps it’s time for a trip to Café Press, and get some t-shirts made…

Feel free to email or call me anytime. 

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Cranberry’s and Cellular Etiquette

May 31, 2006

The cellular etiquette meme continues.  This latest column, from the IndyStar, has Martha Stewart giving advice on boudoir color schemes, plus appropriate cellular phone etiquette.  If you’re going to paint your walls cranberry, a “blend of dramatic reds and soothing blues”, says Martha, use bright accessories to complement the walls.  And when answering a cellphone, “Remember [...]

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Cellphone Etiquette

January 1, 2006

Cellphone etiquette continues to be in the news.  This morning, Marylee Shrider, writing in the Bakersfield Californian, rails at people who take calls in restaurants, theaters, and other public spaces.  This, after going to a movie and being disturbed by callers. Cell phone etiquette, like cell phone technology is still evolving, but “no matter where [...]

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Someone’s Cellphone Went Off in Church Today

September 18, 2005

My Google search for cell phone etiquette related stories caught this one this morning… Yes, You Can Be Too Well Connected, says The Hartford Courant. Someone’s cellphone went off in church today. During a funeral mass. …you could hear the sound of the person’s voicemail on speakerphone just as the priest was in the middle of [...]

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More Phone Etiquette Blunders

September 17, 2005

I have a Google subscription set up to catch interesting stories about telephone etiquette, because one of the things that Iotum’s software is designed to do is to minimize inappropriate interruptions.  This piece was written for the college crowd.  "Why keep your cell phone on vibrate when you’re in class?" it asks.  It also goes [...]

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Callers Bear Some of Responsibility Too!

September 6, 2005

Standards Differ on Cell Phone Etiquette says Sue Doyle at the San Bernardino Sun.  She goes through the usual litany of bad behaviour by cell phone owners, including people who take calls while on dates.  One interesting observation from psychologist Gloria Morrow: "…not all fault lies with the cell phone owner. There needs to be [...]

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Know When to Turn the Cell Phone Off

September 5, 2005

Except under extraordinary circumstances, there is no reason to either answer a cell phone during a meeting or, worse, take the call and have a conversation while the meeting is still going on. So says Chuck Martin, writing in the Portsmouth Herald.  A while ago I set up a Google Alert for new stories on [...]

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